Pak Harto was a hardworking, disciplined, and meticulous individual. His daily routine included waking up early in the morning and arriving at the office promptly at 08:00 am every day. He had a neat handwriting, a strong memory, and was proficient with numbers. He was also an avid reader and encouraged people to study science and technology, even abroad, despite not having been educated overseas himself. He was known for his constant smile and rarely displayed anger; when he did get upset, he would be silent and avoid speaking to those who angered him.
In 1983, I became Pak Harto’s son-in-law. I had served as a captain and participated in operations in East Timor twice, under different sector commanders. Pak Harto was very disciplined in his daily routine, which included playing golf three times a week and receiving guests in the evenings. He had a small study where he would work late into the night, reviewing and signing numerous documents. Despite his busy schedule, he had a deep understanding of Javanese philosophy and history, which he often incorporated into his leadership.
When I became the Commander of the 328 Airborne Infantry Battalion/KOSTRAD in 1985, I sought advice from Pak Harto, who shared his experiences and techniques for forming and training combat battalions. His guidance greatly contributed to the success and reputation of the 328 Battalion. He also emphasized ancient teachings and Javanese philosophy, which he believed were essential for a successful and happy life.
Before embarking on a mission to East Timor, I was summoned by Pak Harto, who provided me with three pieces of advice: ojo lali, ojo dumeh, ojo ngoyo. These words held deep meaning for me as a commander with combat experience. Despite expecting financial assistance, I realized the profound wisdom behind Pak Harto’s guidance. His involvement in various military operations throughout his career, including the General Offensive of March 1 and the suppression of the G30S/PKI communist rebellion, highlighted the significance of his advice.
In conclusion, Pak Harto’s dedication, discipline, and attention to detail were evident in his daily life and interactions. His expertise in various fields, including military operations and Javanese philosophy, made him a respected leader and mentor. His teachings and advice continue to resonate with those who had the privilege of knowing him.
